These days, people have become very sensitive. We all have to hear
about when people are offended, and we all have to watch what we say so
as not to make others feel bad. You can barely disagree with people
without getting into a debate about feelings. You almost have to like
things infront of people so that they don't feel bad.
"I really liked that movie. I thought it was well written and directed."
"I really didn't like it. Just wasn't very good."
"What? But I liked it. Are you trying to say that I'm dumb because you didn't like something that I liked?"
"Umm, no. Just for me, I didn't really like it."
I said I... did. By societal standards, you have to say that you liked
it in the presence of me, so that I don't feel as if I like something
that shouldn't be liked. Do you understand?"
have become so sensitive that a lot of times, if someone questions
something they say, they'll change their opinion. Change their thoughts
right there, just so as not to offend the other person's beliefs.
"Can I have a muffin?"
"Well, actually, you're right. A bagel."
"So a bagel?"
"Look, I'm sorry. I didn't mean to offend you. I'll have whatever morning pastry you have that you will not repeat."
"What? You want a treat?"
was a point in time when you could call someone out for being wrong.
Now you're not supposed to say anything because you'll hurt someone's
feelings. So instead of disagreeing, you're supposed to pretend it
wasn't said, then talk about it later.
"You know, dolphins live in the Amazon rainforest."
"...Huh. I didn't know that. Okay, well, I have to go."
"Can you believe that complete idiot thinks dolphins live on land?"
"Look, let's just get home, okay? I can't even comprehend what was just said."
Now, for some reason, if you disagree and you call someone out publicly for what they say, you're the jerk.
"I really liked the game Twisted Metal. I loved using Sonic the Hedgehog."
"Sonic wasn't in Twisted Metal. You must be thinking of Sonic All-Stars Racing."
"John, there's no reason to be rude. If he says he used Sonic in Twisted Metal, then he did."
"What? I'm not trying to be rude. You just can't use that character in that ga..."
"I... can't... I just have to... goodbye, guys. Enjoy the... rest of your.... ahhhhh!"
"See what you did, John? You made him cry. You called him a liar and made him cry!"
"Let me go talk to him."
So you can tell him that he's not crying because of you, and he must be
thinking about something else? You've done enough!"
thing that happens because of this sensitivity – celebrities will say
something, voice their opinions, sensitive people freak out and less
than TEN MINUTES later, said celebrity is apologizing. Happens time and
time again. Lead singer of Green Day freaked out on stage because he
thought he was being lit early, broke his guitar and pretty much
apologized as he was coming off because others were upset by it.
"Hey! We don't think you breaking your guitar was right!"
right. I apologize. I'm currently still breaking my guitar, but I
apologize. I will finish destroying this thing, and my God, I'm sorry
Stevie Nicks said that she thinks Nicki Minaj
should strangle Mariah Carey. People got upset, she apologized. Who the
hell cares what Stevie Nicks says? Who cares if Nicki chokes Mariah? Why
the hell does any of this matter? It matters because people are crazy
sensitive and actual thoughts cannot be stated.
"She should be punched in the face!"
"That is offensive to me, the faceless masses!"
well, you're right. I take it back. Thirty seconds ago I was really
going through something. Now, though? I'm fine. Thank you, and I DEEPLY
regret my words."
It seems sometimes that
people go out of their way to be offended. People leave their houses,
trying to find something to be upset about.
"Hmmm. A poster
about cat food. Off the top, I'm not at all upset about this, but I'm
sure if I scrutinize it, I can find something. 'Feed Your Kitty
Something Pretty'. Hmmm. Nothing there. The cat is standing, staring at
me. That seems to be oka... wait! Cats don't stand, they lay down! This
gives an unrealistic view of what cats do. What if someone has never had
a cat, sees this and thinks that all they do is play all day? No! This
cannot stand! I'm upset!"
People are so sensitive now; they'll get offended on behalf of someone else, even when the thoughts are justified.
"My roommate was masturbating with his door open! That's insane! I have to kick him out."
"Kick him out? Come on, man. Isn't that a little harsh? Maybe he's going through some stuff."
"Going through some stuff? Well add 'Roommate Wanted Lists' to what he's going through. He's out!"
"I just think public masturbation is a cry for help."
"...Didn't you say yesterday that you hated this guy and that you wished he fell into a tire fire?"
"Yeah, and I do. But kicked out? That's too far."
can't say really anything without offending someone. Nothing. But
people still try to have opinions, while also trying to appease
"Look, I'm just saying that show is complete trash.
No disrespect to the writers, actors, director, lighting guys,
production team or the network that plays it, but it's HORRIBLE. I mean,
I think all of these people are probably talented, but they deserve to
die. No offence, but man, just terrible. My thoughts are with their
How the hell can you do that? How
can you have a negative opinion about a group but then say, "No
disrespect." When did that change anyway? There was a time when you
WANTED to disrespect.
"Hey, full disrespect here. You chew your food like a sick camel."
That hurts. Didn't you mean, 'No disrespect'? That way, it's just
harmless criticism and allows me the decision to alter what I'm doing or
keep it the way that it is."
"Oh, I know that. That's why I said full disrespect. You need to know this. You chew like all of your teeth are kicking."
"...Like all of your teeth are kicking... no disrespect?"
"Full, man. Full."
come out and people get offended. What, do you want these people to run
by their projects with you before they make it? They have to ask
everyone on the planet what they think of it and if it's offensive? If
that were how things worked, nothing would EVER get made. Nothing. Ever.
"Oh, see. I liked it here until he killed his wife. I just don't think that's right. I mean, why would he do that?"
"The movie's called 'He Kills His Wife'! It's a major plot point!"
I just don't think it's needed. Couldn't he just sit her down and talk
out their problems? That's what me and Gerry would do."
"She sold him out to the mob for fifteen thousand dollars! Would Gerry ever do that to you?"
"Oh, heavens no. And if he did, I'd kill him."
are so sensitive they can read a tweet, be offended by it and want the
person who wrote it fired. Fired! For a 140-character thought. Get out!
He said he doesn't like gay people. He has no control in this world, he
doesn't run a cult, nobody is willing to die for him, he's not a
president, CEO, owner of anything, but I don't think he's allowed to say
what's on his mind. Fire this man! Light this man on fire! He deserves
all of the bad that comes his way!"
It's funny that a man's
intolerance is met with no tolerance whatsoever. We're sensitive to the
words they use, but not sensitive to the punishment that should happen
How do people think they can actually
walk around the earth and not be offended? What puts you at that level
that nothing in this world should ever rub you the wrong way?
suggestive rap music? How the hell did this get in front of me?! Does
this clothing store not know that I'm the Assistant Manager to the
cashiers of TD Bank? I don't need this garbage in my life! I want people
to think I'm sophisticated!"
I'm not offended by much, and
when I say that, I mean that I don't get offended by things most people
are offended by. You know what offends me? No swearing in horror movies.
People coming to a dead stop while they are walking down a busy street.
The ads in New York that tell people not to let the mayor tell them how
much pop to drink. Okay, so don't listen to the mayor. Listen to the
company that makes money when you buy more of this trash. If you want to
be 'free', bring your own container. Don't let anyone pick a size for
"Will that be small, medium or large?"
the bed of my Ford F-150. No kid who can sweat through a wool coat is
going to tell me what to drink out of. I'll pull around back. And put my
fries in this shoe box while you're at it."